"What do you do after work?"
"I have so much work even after work, if not I just relax at home or go climbing...what do you do?"
"I always go have a quick drink at the bar, sometimes alone, sometimes with a friend...to meet people, give people a chance to meet me...when I first met you, you had that huge wall around you, that's why I made it a challenge, and I decided to come say hi to you every morning...and one day, you finally came to say hi first. You should try to open up more, go out, meet people and have fun with it."